I am frequently admonished by members when I say that I don’t believe that polygamy is correct that “I should read my scriptures.”
It’s an arrogant statement. It insinuates that they have read their scriptures but I haven’t read mine and therefore they know more than I do. Perhaps they do. I could be completely wrong. But it isn't because I haven't read the scriptures.
In 2012 I made a goal to read all my scriptures straight through. I read the Old Testament, the NewTestament, the Book of Mormon, the Doctrine & Covenants and the Pearl of Great Price. I also read the Relief Society Book, "Daughters In My Kingdom" that was published that year, and the Relief Society and Priesthood manual for that year. I accomplished this in that year.
While reading I was looking for specific instances where the Lord commands the people to practice polygamy.
Except for the one scripture in the D&C 132, I didn’t find one instance where the Lord commanded people to enter into polygamy.
But what about Abraham, and David, and Jacob?
There is no record of the Lord commanding them to practice it, except in D&C 132 which you can read for yourself here.
For most people in the church, that one scripture is enough. After all, it's scripture.
There's a lot in that one scripture, not just plural marriage, but other things that are basic beliefs that hit close to home with the Saints. Some things sound wonderful, others are down right scary.
I have some problems with this scripture and I will explain that in another post after I've dealt with some of the other issues I will be posting about.
What I did find in the scriptures is a lot of examples of how plural marriage doesn't work. And a lot of scriptures that command monogamy. And some scriptures where the Lord condemns polygamy. In order to follow D&C 132 (the plural marriage part) you would have to ignore all those other scriptures.